Effective Manifestation & How I Overcame My Biggest Manifestation Mistake
Hey Fulfilled Femme,
Today we have a powerful topic to focus on! MANIFESTATION! It's such a game-changing concept that will help you call in your fulfilling life and business.
What is manifestation?
In other words, having clarity of what you desire, having a detailed intention behind it, and embodying what you want to help you attain it. There's a part of this definition I am going to share more about today.
It is a concept that has become trendy in the past couple of years. Lots of celebs and the mainstream have been speaking about it.
Do you feel focused on your goal, but feel like something just wasn't connecting? Maybe you want it so bad, but it just doesn’t seem to be happening like you’ve planned out.
It’s ok if you feel that way! I have been there.
In early 2020 I started manifesting that I would live on the beach. I planned out the whole thing. I researched traveling to Mexico, I created folders of Airbnb’s of where I wanted to stay, and I even started buying the swimsuits I envisioned myself wearing on the beach!
I was so focused on the process of how I would make this manifestation happen. But then the pandemic happened…but I didn't give up that easily. I tried so hard to keep my dream alive.
I would spend so much time and energy figuring out how I could make my dream of living on the beach a reality. I researched any possible strategy to get to Mexico.
…Until I stepped back one day and realized the amount of work I was putting into this. I was exhausted, and for almost 2 years, nothing was happening.
That's when it hit me:
I was suffocating my manifestation.
I was putting so much of my effort into it, that I wasn’t letting the universe bring it into existence. I was mistrusting, doubting, and letting the manifestation slip even further away.
Instead of staying in this cycle of disappointment, I realized I needed to shift my focus and surrender my manifestation to the universe. And then little by little, I started to see the divine plan unfold, and in 2021 I was sitting on the beach in Mexico, just steps from the most perfect Airbnb!
But, this isn’t just about me. I want you to be able to realize your manifestations too! So how do you surrender your dreams to a higher power like that?
Here's how to manifest effectively:
1. Be extremely clear on what it is you want to manifest
Brainstorm what you dream of, and then decide on a clear, concise statement that puts a specific vision into your future.
For the Mexican beach example, I was clear that I wanted to live in an oceanfront apartment in Mexico.
You want it to be detailed so the universe knows exactly what you are manifesting. It's important to be detailed enough that you were reading it to a friend so that they would understand your intention without any grey area.
2. Connect with your manifestation daily
It's so crucial to embody the manifestation you are calling in. Include your senses in this experience so you can be one with your desire.
Try tools like:
Create a vision board
Write out your dream day
Feel it happening as deeply and truly as you can inside of you
Do visualization meditations
You can even use crystals to help you with your manifestations. I had a powerful guest episode on my podcast about it. Check it out here.
This also keeps you focused and in the frequency of what you are calling in. This is the key to effective manifestation.
3. Surrender to the Divine Plan
When you feel like you’re putting so much energy into this manifestation, take a step back and let it go. Imagine the words you say are released into the universe, and trust that they will come back to you.
When you are feeling in doubt that it's coming, caught up in the timeline of when you feel like it "should've" happened, or are getting caught up in upset that things "didn't go as planned" take a moment to STOP, take a deep breath and lean into faith.
Let your faith be your guide. Trust that the universe's plan is always for your best good.
If you feel like action is needed, take a moment to connect to your higher power or intuition, and ask: “What is the step that I am meant to take?”
I sat with this question every day when I was manifesting living on the beach. Sometimes the answer would be to do something: research locations or buy a new swimsuit. Other times, the answer would be to just daydream about it.
My biggest advice to you is to keep the manifestation alive in your soul but trust that it will happen the way that it is meant to.
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Love and light,